Brainspotting My Way Through a Hot Flash Summer
In 100-degree Riverside heat with no AC, surviving perimenopause, AuDHD burnout, and med-induced heat sensitivity is no joke. Between somatic brainspotting therapy, launching ResistantAF, hosting an Edgar Allan Poe book club, and exposing hospital ADA violations with a 20-page grievance, I’m reclaiming my life and advocating for change—one chaotic step at a time.
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Recovering from over-exerting during a scorching errand run, I’m gearing up to launch ResistantAF. Armed with a new laptop and logo, I’m embracing somatic therapy, exposing psychiatric ADA violations from a recent stay via an 18-page essay, and building an empowering community—one authentic, self-caring step at a time.
Disabled Baddie Finding Independence in Independence Day—Happy Fuckin’ B-day, USA
On July 4th, 41-year-old disabled, newly divorced mom of five Patricia Fernandez introduces ResistantAF. Facing treatment-resistant depression, chronic illness, and poverty, the psychology sophomore isn't letting bed rest define her. She’s taking control, mapping out her dreams, and proving that independence means reclaiming her life and legacy on her own terms.